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<title>Going to Miss TV Dating Shows?</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p><blockquote><p>The end of televised realtiy dating - rendering romance little more than a spectator sport - is no loss is it?</p><p>Production has stopped on NBC Universal Domestic Television Distribution&#8217;s <em>Blind Date</em>, while Warner Bros. Domestic Television Distribution&#8217;s <em>ElimiDate</em> hasn&#8217;t been renewed for 2006-07, sources said.</p><p> &#8230; </p><p> <em>Blind Date</em> and <em>ElimiDate</em> represent the last two relationship shows left in syndication. The past few years have marked the demise of such other dating shows as <em>The 5th Wheel</em> and <em>Extreme Dating</em>.</p></blockquote><p><a href="http://www.cnn.com/2006/SHOWBIZ/TV/08/11/television.dating.reut/index.html" title="End of television dating reality programs."><em>Blind Date</em> production stopped, <em>ElimiDate</em> not renewed</a></p></p>
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<title>Intimacy for Dummies</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>A roundup of romantic self-help titles:</p><blockquote><p>In the interests of advancing public knowledge on this delicate subject, we have amassed a large stack of recent books, and have gone through them carefully for romantic tips on cultivating your own relationship. Sharing these books with one’s partner may require a certain amount of tact: You can only imagine the result of announcing, “Honey, I bought this book just for you: <em>Intimacy for Dummies</em>. ”</p></blockquote><p><a href="http://www.thestate.com/mld/thestate/living/health/15168491.htm?source=rss&channel=thestate_health" title="Self help books that focus on love and sexuality.">Let’s ‘Do It.’ Let’s buy a book!</a></p>
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<pubDate>Tue, 01 Aug 2006 14:20:50 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Email Flirting Protocol</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>An innocent man&#8217;s romantic email was forwarded to others for a laugh, eventually making its way into the newspapers. </p><blockquote><p>All of which poses the question of how to flirt, score, start a loving relationship in an email without scaring the recipient or, alternatively, coming across as so cold as to be almost pathologically uninterested in other human beings. I frequently find new and exciting ways to make a fool of myself, especially concerning boys, and preserving such moments in written form is one of my favourite ways to do so. This flirtatious email etiquette guide is based on my own sorry experiences, with help from some equally inept friends.</p></blockquote><p><a href="http://observer.guardian.co.uk/focus/story/0,,1833503,00.html" title="How to flirt via email messages.">I feel for Joe the email flirt</a></p>
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<category>Online Dating</category>
<pubDate>Sun, 30 Jul 2006 18:17:14 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Didn&apos;t It Hurt When You Fell From Heaven?</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Is there a woman alive who would fall from these suggestions from a collection of pick-up lines? </p> <blockquote><p>If their top-rated suggestion does not have the desired effect, then try in one of six languages to say: &#8220;Didn&#8217;t it hurt when you fell from heaven?&#8221;</p>  <p>Or maybe: &#8220;You must be tired because you&#8217;ve been running through my mind all day.&#8221; </p> <p>Scraping in at Number 10 in the romance parade comes &#8220;The only things your eyes haven&#8217;t told me is your name.&#8221;</p></blockquote>  <p><a href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/life_love_dc" title="Silly things men say when flirting with women.">Top 10 pick-up lines? Don&#8217;t get too excited.</a></p>
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<pubDate>Wed, 12 Jul 2006 18:52:41 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Men: Don&apos;t Make These Mistakes</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p><p>Answer - just about everything. Just because you&#8217;re on an online dating site does not mean you have to throw every ounce of class out the window. We see men in particular get it all wrong every day. Acting badly in chat rooms, bad taste photos in their ads. Bad descriptions in their ads. Contacting members when they don’t fit the profile requirements. The list goes on - the fact is guys will not get the best results unless they learn how to play the online game. This means using some basic skills most of should know from functioning in society on a daily basis.</p>  </p>
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<pubDate>Wed, 12 Jul 2006 17:11:05 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Til Debt Do US Part</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p><blockquote><p> &#8220;People will forgive sexual infidelity before they forgive financial infidelity,&#8221; says divorce financial specialist Akeela Davis.</p>  <p>And those who do end up forgiving a financial philanderer end up being labelled &#8220;sucker,&#8221; adds Gail Vaz-Oxlade, host of the TV show <em>Til Debt Do US Part</em>, which airs on Life Network. </p> <p>Well, &#8220;sucker&#8221; is definitely written all over the forehead of this desperate caller to my TV show, <em>Money Line</em>. </p> <p>&#8220;Linda, what I can I do?&#8221; pressed John, who explained his work takes him away from home for weeks on end, and his bride gets bored. He went on to explain, &#8220;so she applied for all these credit cards, went on a spending spree, maxed them all out and secretly kept it from me. But then collection agencies began to call.&#8221; </p> <p>Worried his bride had sunk them into a bankruptcy spiral, John took out a line of credit against their home&#8217;s equity, and paid every sucker off. He also sat down with his wife and firmly explained she was never to do this again. </p> <p>But, he had to go off to work again, leaving her on her own, and, lo and behold, she did do it again. </p></blockquote>  <p><a href="http://www.ottawasun.com/Lifestyle/2006/07/02/1664228-sun.html" title="People will forgive sexual infidelity before they forgive financial infidelity">Financial infidelity is a leading cause of marriage breakups,</a></p></p>
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<pubDate>Wed, 05 Jul 2006 14:50:53 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Methamphetamine Epidemic</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p><P>The average person would probably think that methamphetamine is a relatively new drug that appeared suddenly overnight. Actually, methamphetamine has been around since the early 1900’s and has had a quiet growing affect on the population as it rapidly spreads across the physical and socio-economic boundaries of America. Also know as meth, crystal, crank and speed, it is the backbone of Ritalin and the “club drugs” ecstasy, eve and cat. With the widespread sharing of recipes for manufacture over the internet, meth has an increasing grip on American culture.</P></p>
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<pubDate>Sun, 02 Jul 2006 16:38:11 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Datertainment</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p><P>OneKeyAway.com of Redondo Beach and Emotional Wreck-ords of Hollywood are uniting to create a new brand of dating and entertainment experience, playfully known as &#8220;Datertainment&#8221;. At select OneKeyAway Mixers, Emotional Wreck-ords Label Artists will provide ice-breaking entertainment and &#8220;Wingman&#8221; services that will encourage guests to mingle with each other throughout the event. The companies will launch their first cross-promoted event on Thursday, July 13, 2006 from 7pm to 10pm and held at 14 Below in Santa Monica, California.</P></p>
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<pubDate>Sun, 02 Jul 2006 16:20:56 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Beginning With Online Dating</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Author: Jonathan White</p>  <p>Did you know that two out of five single people in the UK now use some kind of on line dating service? That&#8217;s 40% of all singles! Unfortunately, the percentage of these people who actually find a real romance as a direct result of their site memberships is very low - probably less than 10%.</p> 
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<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jun 2006 01:52:48 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Just Dating</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Author: Jill Dellamalva</p>  <p>&#8220;What time do you want to go to my family&#8217;s house on Christmas Eve?&#8221; you ask your boyfriend of two months. You&#8217;re looking forward to introducing him to your relatives because you&#8217;ve been bragging to them that your relationship has been perfect so far. </p>  <p> That is, until you hear his response to your question. </p>  <p>&#8220;Oh,&#8221; he says, turning a little red. &#8220;I didn&#8217;t think we&#8217;d be spending the holidays together with each other&#8217;s families. You know, we&#8217;re just dating.&#8221; </p> 
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<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jun 2006 01:49:57 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Healthy Online Dating</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Author: Naim A. Samad</p>  <p>The journey to healthy online dating, intimate, social and personal relationships starts at the beginning of the rainbow. Experiencing the joy of childbirth is analogous to viewing a beautiful rainbow. Many women love being pregnant! They feel sexy and sensual, busty and beautiful. Furthermore, every time they gaze upon their expanding bellies they must realize part two of this phenomenal and splendid act is about to commence.</p> 
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<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jun 2006 23:46:54 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Quitting Smoking</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Copyright 2005 Dave Markel</p>  <p>Quitting smoking is considered to be one of the most difficult things to achieve. Many people try to give up a few times before succeeding completely. Smokers generally have both physical and psychological dependencies on cigarettes. The physical attribute can be related to the nicotine cravings that many people have when they have not had a cigarette for a certain period of time. This amount of time differs between various people and how much they smoke. The psychological part can have many influences such as peer pressure or simply the enjoyment of lighting up.</p> 
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<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jun 2006 23:40:11 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>The #1 Male Dating Mistake</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Author: Mick Jones</p>  <p> Once you are good at meeting women online, or anywhere for that matter&#8230; The next step is to be able to qualify the lady quickly. By qualify I mean to decide whether to see her again and allow her into your life. This is a very important skill for many reasons. </p>  <p> Here is the Killer mistake a lot of men make!</p> 
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<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jun 2006 19:05:03 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Dress Codes</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p><P>Author: Susan Dunn, M.A., The EQ Coach™</P>  <P>It strikes terror in the heart of some of us, while others ignore it completely. Some of us are relieved there is one; others of us resent it. The Dress Code: Does it affect your career, affect whether you’re hired or not, affect how you’re treated on the job? Definitely. </P>  <P>How do you ‘manage’ this particular area of your life? It requires emotional intelligence – some awareness, creativity, flexibility and intuition, and a whole lot of common sense. </P>  <P>For instance, in former years I applied for a job at a major international law firm. At the interview, we were handed one sheet of instructions. The second item they chose to put on this piece of paper was, “Since you have chosen to work in a conservative work environment&#8230;”</P> </p>
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<category>Emotional Intelligence</category>
<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jun 2006 15:53:24 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>The Science of Habit Management</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Author: Dr. Stephen Kraus, Success Scientist</p>  <p> Few things are more difficult than kicking bad habits or developing more positive ones. But it is definitely worth the effort. Bad habits like smoking, overeating or self-criticism shorten lives and lead to underachievement, and unsuccessful attempts to change them lower self-esteem. </p>  <p>In contrast, good habits create a kind of “success auto-pilot,” leading to greater accomplishment with less thought and less effort.</p>  
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<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jun 2006 20:43:14 +0000</pubDate>
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